What does live music at a funeral cost?

One of the first questions next of kin ask when considering live music at a funeral is: what will it cost? It's an understandable question, especially at a time when a lot is already on your mind. This article provides an honest and transparent overview.

Average costs in the Netherlands (2026)

Costs vary depending on the type of musician, duration, and region. These are the common guide prices:

Solo instrumentalist (clarinet, violin, cello, piano, harp): 350 to 650 euros for 30 to 60 minutes, including preparation and consultation in advance.

Singer or singer: 400 to 800 euro, depending on accompaniment. A cappella is cheaper, with a pianist more expensive.

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Duo (for example, clarinet and piano, or violin and cello): 600 to 1,200 euros.

String quartet or small ensemble: 800 to 1,500 euros.

Choir: 500 to 2,000 euro, depending on size and travel distance.

These prices include the preparation interview, rehearsal of any special requests, travel time within a reasonable distance, and attendance on the day itself (usually 1.5 to 2 hours).

What determines the price?

The price you pay is not just for the half-hour you hear the musician play. Here's the difference:

Preparation: a personal conversation with the bereaved about music choice, looking up sheet music, rehearsing any special requests. This quickly takes 1 to 2 hours.

Travel time: some musicians charge travel expenses separately, others charge an all-in rate within a certain radius. Ask specifically about this.

Duration on location: the musician is usually present for 1.5 to 2 hours, including set-up, coordination with the funeral director, and the performance itself. A brief musical moment of two pieces costs less than accompaniment for the entire service plus condolence.

Specialization: a musician who specializes in funeral music brings experience that makes the service run more smoothly. That expertise is included in the price.

Does funeral insurance cover it?

This is a common question, and the answer is nuanced:

Natural insurance (the insurer arranges the funeral): live music is almost never in the standard package. You can add it as an extra, but pay for it out of pocket or from an additional budget.

Capital Insurance (you are paid a sum of money): you can spend the money as you see fit, including on live music. This gives more freedom.

Sum insurance (combination): check the policy conditions. Sometimes there is a line item "personal fulfillment" from which music can be paid.

Concrete advice: call your funeral insurance company and ask specifically about "reimbursement for live music at the funeral service." Write down the answer because it varies by policy and provider. You can also ask the funeral director to find out; they usually have experience with this.

Comparison with other funeral costs

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To put the costs in perspective: an average funeral in the Netherlands costs between 7,000 and 10,000 euros (source: Nibud). Within that, the costs for live music (350-650 euros) are comparable to:

• Mourning cards and acknowledgements: 200-500 euros
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• Floral arrangements: 300-800 euro
• Coffee table/condolence: 500-1,500 euro
• Rourier car: 500-1,000 euro

Live music is thus not an excessive expense within the overall picture, but it is understandable that every euro counts at a time when you already have so much to arrange.

How to book a musician?

Booking usually involves four steps:

1. Contact: directly with the musician, or through the funeral director. Many funeral directors have contacts with musicians in the area.

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2. Brief conversation: by phone or email. Who was the deceased? What atmosphere are you looking for? Are there any specific wishes? This usually takes 15 to 30 minutes.

3. Musical suggestions: the musician makes suggestions based on the conversation. Together you make a choice.

4. The day itself: the musician is present well in advance and coordinates with the funeral director. As a bereaved person, you don't have to worry about this anymore.

The timeline is short: most funeral musicians are used to switching within two to five days. Booking at the last minute is almost always possible.

Tips to cut costs

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• Choose a shorter performance. Two or three pieces at key moments (walk-in, farewell, walk-out) instead of accompanying the entire service. This saves considerably in price.
• Choose a solo instrument. A soloist is cheaper than a duo or ensemble, and can be just as impressive in an intimate setting.
• Request the funeral director. They often know musicians in the area and can sometimes negotiate a discount through their partnership.
• Combine with the condolence. If you also want music at the condolence, a combined package is usually more economical than booking separately.